practical and new} resources to enhance yourself while confronting your psychological difficulties Shane Betterhelp
yes well it’s a huge concern to begin with sure well let me simply just reassociate about that a little bit I’ve been doing treatment for a long time of all the different schools of therapy I would state did one end of the continuum of those who think that the nature of the relationship the intimacy of the relationship the the work on the procedure indicating what’s happening in between exists isn’t a is the most crucial issue so I focus quite on taking a look at what’s going on between the clients and me trying to offer very intimate so I would be the person who would most likely be least interested in a context therapy format and and I have been for several years I suggest one so my associates do telephone terapy for instance I know an analyst who relocated to California would capital for New York analysis and would do her analysis of the phone I felt extremely important that you’re missing all these visual hints how can you do that but whatever changed for me a couple of years ago when I got a call an e-mail from from a patient who I can’t even
discuss the the place where she was however she was on another continent where it was definitely ice-cold in the northern hemisphere and there wasn’t another therapist or MD within five or 6 hundred miles of her and asking whether I would simply do some Skype work with her since there was no other option I I agreed to do that she couldn’t see anybody else and she needed therapy so I began dealing with her and I ended up having a great experience with her in fact she had transferred to that location to get away from everybody and there is no way that she would have wanted to consult with me in a room in person there was no other alternative in a sense therefore it ended up it was surprisingly well I was really impressed with that and ever since I have actually had a genuine had a genuine change of concentrate on that and one of the things that has actually been most interesting to me about talks face is the fact that of a it’s just it’s counterproductive I would have thought the major problem with talk area is that they would not be focusing on the here and now what was occurring between therapist and patient and yet compared to a lot of the new movements in psychiatric therapy with cognitive behavioral therapy they’re even more associated with the nature a minimum of the method it’s carried out in this attire it’s they’re much more interested and nurturing of the here and now and with client relationship so that’s.
that’s been a change of mind for me totally moved I was likewise shocked to see just how much intimacy you can get back at by writing sometimes even some of the patients are more able to expose themselves that is a little bit anonymous that that’s been extremely important finding for me also I have actually been dealing with Nicole Eames and supervising quite routinely now in the last couple of years and that’s that’s one of the things that I really discovered in my deal with her as she discussed her patient they expose things what has shocked me is a number of times I’ve heard her say the patients have said that they reveal things to her they never revealed to their to their face-to-face therapist which’s quite remarkable among the important things is obviously the anonymity that that we don’t quite locate but here they deal with face to face therapist for a year or two and never ever revealed particular of these things that were that were extremely disgraceful there’s another thing too which is that a patient can have a panic attack in the middle of the night and instantly text the therapist. Shane Betterhelp