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yes well it’s a huge question to begin with sure well let me just simply reassociate about that a bit I have actually been doing therapy for a very long time of all the different schools of treatment I would say did one end of the continuum of those who believe that the nature of the relationship the intimacy of the relationship the the work on the procedure suggesting what’s occurring in between exists isn’t a is the most important issue so I focus quite on looking at what’s going on between the patients and me trying to provide very intimate so I would be the individual who would probably be least thinking about a context treatment format and and I have actually been for many years I mean one so my colleagues do telephone terapy for example I know an analyst who moved to California would capital for New york city analysis and would do her analysis of the phone I felt really crucial that you’re missing all these visual cues how can you do that however everything changed for me a few years ago when I got a call an e-mail from from a patient who I can’t even
mention the the place where she was but she was on another continent where it was absolutely ice-cold in the northern hemisphere and there wasn’t another therapist or MD within five or six hundred miles of her and asking whether I would just do some Skype work with her given that there was no other option I I agreed to do that she couldn’t see anybody else and she needed therapy so I started working with her and I ended up having a very good experience with her in fact she had actually moved to that place to escape everyone and there is no way that she would have wanted to meet with me in a room face-to-face there was no other option in a sense and so it wound up it was surprisingly well I was really impressed with that and since then I’ve had a genuine had a genuine modification of focus on that and among the things that has been most fascinating to me about talks deal with is the fact that of a it’s simply it’s counterintuitive I would have believed the major problem with talk space is that they would not be concentrating on the here and now what was taking place between therapist and client and yet compared with many of the brand-new movements in psychiatric therapy with cognitive behavior modification they’re far more associated with the nature a minimum of the way it’s done in this attire it’s they’re much more interested and nurturing of the here and now and with patient relationship so that’s.
that’s been a change of mind for me totally moved I was also amazed to see just how much intimacy you can get even by composing in some cases even some of the patients are more able to expose themselves that is a bit confidential that that’s been extremely important finding for me too I’ve been working with Nicole Eames and supervising rather routinely now in the last number of years and that’s that’s one of the things that I really discovered in my work with her as she talked about her client they expose things what has shocked me is numerous times I’ve heard her state the patients have stated that they expose things to her they never revealed to their to their in person therapist which’s quite amazing one of the things is obviously the privacy that that we do not rather locate but here they deal with face to face therapist for a year or more and never exposed particular of these things that were that were really disgraceful there’s another thing too which is that a patient can have a panic attack in the middle of the night and right away text the therapist. Roni Frank Betterhelp