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yes well it’s a huge concern to begin with sure well let me just just reassociate about that a little bit I’ve been doing therapy for a very long time of all the different schools of therapy I would state did one end of the continuum of those who believe that the nature of the relationship the intimacy of the relationship the the work on the procedure suggesting what’s taking place in between is there isn’t a is the most essential concern so I focus quite on taking a look at what’s going on between the clients and me attempting to provide very intimate so I would be the person who would probably be least interested in a context therapy format and and I have actually been for many years I indicate one so my colleagues do telephone terapy for example I understand an expert who moved to California would capital for New york city analysis and would do her analysis of the phone I felt very vital that you’re missing all these visual hints how can you do that however everything changed for me a few years ago when I got a call an e-mail from from a patient who I can’t even
discuss the the place where she was but she was on another continent where it was definitely ice-cold in the northern hemisphere and there wasn’t another therapist or MD within 5 or six hundred miles of her and asking whether I would simply do some Skype work with her since there was no other option I I agreed to do that she couldn’t see anyone else and she required therapy so I began working with her and I wound up having a very good experience with her in fact she had actually moved to that location to escape everyone and there is no other way that she would have been willing to consult with me in a room in person there was no other option in a sense and so it ended up it was remarkably well I was really satisfied with that and since then I have actually had a genuine had a genuine change of focus on that and among the things that has been most intriguing to me about talks deal with is the reality that of a it’s just it’s counterintuitive I would have thought the significant problem with talk space is that they would not be concentrating on the here and now what was occurring in between therapist and patient and yet compared to much of the brand-new movements in psychotherapy with cognitive behavior modification they’re far more involved in the nature a minimum of the method it’s carried out in this attire it’s they’re much more interested and nurturing of the here and now and with client relationship so that’s.
that’s been a change of mind for me completely migrated I was also amazed to see just how much intimacy you can get even by writing in some cases even a few of the patients are more able to expose themselves that is a little bit anonymous that that’s been very essential finding for me also I have actually been dealing with Nicole Eames and supervising rather routinely now in the last number of years and that’s that is among the important things that I truly discovered in my deal with her as she spoke about her client they expose things what has surprised me is a number of times I have actually heard her state the clients have said that they reveal things to her they never revealed to their to their in person therapist which’s quite remarkable one of the things is obviously the privacy that that we don’t quite locate however here they work with face to face therapist for a year or two and never ever exposed specific of these things that were that were extremely shameful there’s another thing too which is that a client can have a panic attack in the middle of the night and immediately text the therapist. .Betterhelp