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yes well it’s a big concern to begin with sure well let me simply simply reassociate about that a bit I’ve been doing therapy for a long time of all the numerous schools of therapy I would state did one end of the continuum of those who think that the nature of the relationship the intimacy of the relationship the the deal with the procedure meaning what’s taking place between is there isn’t a is the most crucial concern so I focus quite on taking a look at what’s going on between the patients and me trying to give very intimate so I would be the individual who would most likely be least thinking about a context therapy format and and I have been for several years I indicate one so my coworkers do telephone terapy for instance I know an analyst who relocated to California would capital for New york city analysis and would do her analysis of the phone I felt extremely important that you’re missing all these visual hints how can you do that however everything changed for me a few years ago when I got a call an e-mail from from a patient who I can’t even
point out the the place where she was however she was on another continent where it was definitely ice-cold in the northern hemisphere and there wasn’t another therapist or MD within five or 6 hundred miles of her and asking whether I would simply do some Skype deal with her since there was no other option I I agreed to do that she could not see anybody else and she needed treatment so I began working with her and I wound up having an excellent experience with her in fact she had transferred to that location to avoid everybody and there is no other way that she would have wanted to consult with me in a space face-to-face there was no other option in a sense and so it wound up it was remarkably well I was really satisfied with that and ever since I’ve had a real had a real change of concentrate on that and among the things that has been most interesting to me about talks deal with is the truth that of a it’s simply it’s counterintuitive I would have believed the significant issue with talk area is that they would not be concentrating on the here and now what was happening in between therapist and client and yet compared to many of the brand-new motions in psychotherapy with cognitive behavior modification they’re even more involved in the nature a minimum of the way it’s performed in this attire it’s they’re much more interested and nurturing of the here and now and with client relationship so that’s.
that’s been a change of heart for me completely migrated I was also surprised to see just how much intimacy you can get back at by writing often even some of the patients are more able to expose themselves that is a little bit confidential that that’s been extremely crucial finding for me as well I have actually been working with Nicole Eames and supervising quite frequently now in the last number of years and that’s that’s one of the important things that I really found in my work with her as she spoke about her patient they reveal things what has surprised me is several times I’ve heard her say the patients have said that they expose things to her they never ever revealed to their to their in person therapist which’s rather remarkable among the important things is naturally the privacy that that we don’t rather find however here they deal with face to face therapist for a year or two and never revealed certain of these things that were that were extremely outrageous there’s another thing too which is that a patient can have an anxiety attack in the middle of the night and right away text the therapist. Betterhelp Washington Post