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yes well it’s a big question to begin with sure well let me just simply reassociate about that a bit I’ve been doing therapy for a very long time of all the numerous schools of therapy I would state did one end of the continuum of those who think that the nature of the relationship the intimacy of the relationship the the work on the process meaning what’s happening between is there isn’t a is the most important concern so I focus quite on looking at what’s going on between the patients and me attempting to give very intimate so I would be the person who would probably be least interested in a context therapy format and and I have actually been for many years I suggest one so my associates do telephone terapy for example I understand an analyst who moved to California would capital for New York analysis and would do her analysis of the phone I felt really vital that you’re missing all these visual cues how can you do that but whatever altered for me a couple of years ago when I got a call an e-mail from from a patient who I can’t even
point out the the location where she was however she was on another continent where it was definitely cold in the northern hemisphere and there wasn’t another therapist or MD within 5 or 6 hundred miles of her and asking whether I would just do some Skype work with her given that there was no other alternative I I agreed to do that she couldn’t see anybody else and she needed therapy so I started working with her and I ended up having an excellent experience with her in fact she had actually transferred to that location to avoid everyone and there is no other way that she would have wanted to consult with me in a space in person there was no other alternative in a sense and so it wound up it was remarkably well I was very pleased with that and since then I’ve had a real had a genuine modification of concentrate on that and among the things that has been most intriguing to me about talks deal with is the reality that of a it’s simply it’s counterproductive I would have believed the significant issue with talk space is that they would not be concentrating on the here and now what was happening between therapist and patient and yet compared with a lot of the brand-new movements in psychotherapy with cognitive behavioral therapy they’re much more associated with the nature a minimum of the way it’s carried out in this outfit it’s they’re much more interested and nurturing of the here and now and with client relationship so that’s.
that’s been a change of heart for me totally moved I was likewise surprised to see just how much intimacy you can get back at by writing sometimes even some of the patients are more able to expose themselves that is a little bit anonymous that that’s been very important finding for me also I have actually been working with Nicole Eames and monitoring rather regularly now in the last number of years and that’s that’s one of the important things that I really found in my work with her as she discussed her patient they reveal things what has surprised me is several times I have actually heard her say the patients have actually said that they expose things to her they never revealed to their to their face-to-face therapist which’s quite amazing one of the things is naturally the privacy that that we don’t quite find but here they deal with face to face therapist for a year or two and never revealed particular of these things that were that were very outrageous there’s another thing too which is that a patient can have an anxiety attack in the middle of the night and instantly text the therapist. Betterhelp Product Innovation Linkedin