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yes well it’s a huge concern to begin with sure well let me simply simply reassociate about that a little bit I’ve been doing treatment for a long time of all the various schools of treatment I would say did one end of the continuum of those who think that the nature of the relationship the intimacy of the relationship the the deal with the procedure suggesting what’s taking place in between exists isn’t a is the most crucial problem so I focus quite on looking at what’s going on in between the clients and me trying to give very intimate so I would be the individual who would most likely be least interested in a context treatment format and and I have actually been for many years I mean one so my coworkers do telephone terapy for instance I understand an expert who transferred to California would capital for New York analysis and would do her analysis of the phone I felt really crucial that you’re missing out on all these visual hints how can you do that but everything altered for me a couple of years ago when I got a call an e-mail from from a client who I can’t even
mention the the location where she was however she was on another continent where it was absolutely ice-cold in the northern hemisphere and there wasn’t another therapist or MD within five or six hundred miles of her and asking whether I would simply do some Skype deal with her since there was no other alternative I I agreed to do that she could not see anybody else and she required therapy so I began working with her and I wound up having a great experience with her in fact she had moved to that place to escape everyone and there is no way that she would have wanted to meet with me in a room in person there was no other alternative in a sense therefore it ended up it was surprisingly well I was really amazed with that and ever since I’ve had a real had a real change of concentrate on that and among the important things that has actually been most intriguing to me about talks face is the truth that of a it’s just it’s counterintuitive I would have thought the major issue with talk space is that they would not be concentrating on the here and now what was happening between therapist and client and yet compared with a lot of the new movements in psychotherapy with cognitive behavior modification they’re much more associated with the nature at least the method it’s done in this clothing it’s they’re much more interested and nurturing of the here and now and with client relationship so that’s.
that’s been a change of heart for me completely moved I was also surprised to see how much intimacy you can get back at by writing sometimes even some of the clients are more able to expose themselves that is a little bit anonymous that that’s been very crucial finding for me also I have actually been working with Nicole Eames and supervising rather frequently now in the last number of years which’s that’s one of the important things that I really discovered in my deal with her as she spoke about her client they reveal things what has shocked me is several times I’ve heard her state the clients have stated that they expose things to her they never exposed to their to their face-to-face therapist and that’s quite exceptional among the things is of course the anonymity that that we do not quite locate however here they work with face to face therapist for a year or 2 and never revealed specific of these things that were that were extremely shameful there’s another thing too which is that a patient can have a panic attack in the middle of the night and immediately text the therapist. Betterhelp Karen Armstrong