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yes well it’s a huge question to begin with sure well let me simply just reassociate about that a bit I have actually been doing therapy for a long time of all the various schools of therapy I would say did one end of the continuum of those who believe that the nature of the relationship the intimacy of the relationship the the deal with the procedure meaning what’s happening between is there isn’t a is the most crucial concern so I focus very much on looking at what’s going on between the patients and me trying to offer very intimate so I would be the individual who would probably be least interested in a context therapy format and and I have actually been for many years I mean one so my colleagues do telephone terapy for example I understand an analyst who relocated to California would capital for New York analysis and would do her analysis of the phone I felt very vital that you’re missing out on all these visual hints how can you do that however whatever changed for me a few years ago when I got a call an e-mail from from a client who I can’t even
discuss the the place where she was but she was on another continent where it was definitely cold in the northern hemisphere and there wasn’t another therapist or MD within 5 or 6 hundred miles of her and asking whether I would just do some Skype deal with her considering that there was no other option I I agreed to do that she couldn’t see anybody else and she required therapy so I began dealing with her and I ended up having an excellent experience with her in fact she had actually transferred to that place to escape everybody and there is no other way that she would have been willing to meet me in a space in person there was no other alternative in a sense and so it wound up it was remarkably well I was extremely satisfied with that and since then I have actually had a real had a real change of focus on that and among the things that has actually been most intriguing to me about talks face is the fact that of a it’s just it’s counterproductive I would have believed the major issue with talk space is that they would not be concentrating on the here and now what was happening in between therapist and client and yet compared with many of the new movements in psychotherapy with cognitive behavioral therapy they’re even more associated with the nature at least the method it’s performed in this attire it’s they’re even more interested and nurturing of the here and now and with patient relationship so that’s.
that’s been a change of heart for me totally moved I was also amazed to see how much intimacy you can get even by composing often even some of the patients are more able to expose themselves that is a little bit confidential that that’s been very essential finding for me as well I’ve been dealing with Nicole Eames and monitoring rather frequently now in the last couple of years and that’s that’s one of the things that I actually discovered in my deal with her as she talked about her patient they expose things what has surprised me is numerous times I have actually heard her say the clients have said that they reveal things to her they never ever revealed to their to their in person therapist and that’s quite remarkable among the important things is obviously the anonymity that that we do not rather find but here they deal with face to face therapist for a year or more and never exposed specific of these things that were that were very outrageous there’s another thing too which is that a patient can have a panic attack in the middle of the night and right away text the therapist. Betterhelp Journal