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yes well it’s a huge question to begin with sure well let me simply just reassociate about that a little bit I have actually been doing treatment for a long time of all the different schools of therapy I would say did one end of the continuum of those who think that the nature of the relationship the intimacy of the relationship the the work on the process implying what’s taking place between exists isn’t a is the most important issue so I focus very much on taking a look at what’s going on between the clients and me trying to offer very intimate so I would be the person who would most likely be least interested in a context therapy format and and I have been for many years I suggest one so my coworkers do telephone terapy for example I know an analyst who relocated to California would capital for New york city analysis and would do her analysis of the phone I felt really critical that you’re missing out on all these visual cues how can you do that but whatever changed for me a few years ago when I got a call an e-mail from from a patient who I can’t even
mention the the location where she was but she was on another continent where it was definitely cold in the northern hemisphere and there wasn’t another therapist or MD within 5 or six hundred miles of her and asking whether I would just do some Skype deal with her given that there was no other option I I agreed to do that she couldn’t see anyone else and she required therapy so I started dealing with her and I wound up having an excellent experience with her in fact she had moved to that place to avoid everyone and there is no chance that she would have wanted to consult with me in a room in person there was no other option in a sense therefore it wound up it was surprisingly well I was really satisfied with that and ever since I have actually had a genuine had a genuine modification of concentrate on that and one of the important things that has actually been most fascinating to me about talks face is the fact that of a it’s just it’s counterproductive I would have thought the major problem with talk area is that they would not be focusing on the here and now what was taking place between therapist and client and yet compared to many of the brand-new motions in psychotherapy with cognitive behavior modification they’re far more involved in the nature at least the method it’s performed in this outfit it’s they’re even more interested and nurturing of the here and now and with patient relationship so that’s.
that’s been a change of heart for me completely migrated I was likewise surprised to see how much intimacy you can get back at by composing often even some of the patients are more able to expose themselves that is a little bit confidential that that’s been very crucial finding for me also I’ve been dealing with Nicole Eames and monitoring rather regularly now in the last couple of years and that’s that’s one of the important things that I actually discovered in my deal with her as she discussed her client they reveal things what has amazed me is several times I’ve heard her state the clients have said that they reveal things to her they never exposed to their to their face-to-face therapist which’s quite exceptional among the important things is naturally the privacy that that we don’t quite find but here they deal with face to face therapist for a year or two and never ever exposed certain of these things that were that were really outrageous there’s another thing too which is that a patient can have a panic attack in the middle of the night and right away text the therapist. Betterhelp John