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yes well it’s a huge question to begin with sure well let me just simply reassociate about that a little bit I’ve been doing treatment for a long time of all the various schools of therapy I would say did one end of the continuum of those who think that the nature of the relationship the intimacy of the relationship the the deal with the procedure suggesting what’s happening between is there isn’t a is the most important problem so I focus quite on looking at what’s going on in between the patients and me attempting to give very intimate so I would be the individual who would probably be least interested in a context therapy format and and I have actually been for many years I mean one so my associates do telephone terapy for example I understand an analyst who relocated to California would capital for New york city analysis and would do her analysis of the phone I felt really crucial that you’re missing all these visual cues how can you do that however everything changed for me a few years ago when I got a call an e-mail from from a patient who I can’t even
point out the the location where she was but she was on another continent where it was absolutely cold in the northern hemisphere and there wasn’t another therapist or MD within 5 or six hundred miles of her and asking whether I would just do some Skype deal with her considering that there was no other alternative I I agreed to do that she couldn’t see anyone else and she needed therapy so I started dealing with her and I wound up having a very good experience with her in fact she had actually relocated to that location to escape everybody and there is no way that she would have been willing to meet me in a room in person there was no other option in a sense and so it wound up it was surprisingly well I was really amazed with that and since then I have actually had a genuine had a genuine modification of focus on that and among the important things that has been most fascinating to me about talks deal with is the reality that of a it’s simply it’s counterproductive I would have thought the major problem with talk space is that they would not be focusing on the here and now what was occurring in between therapist and client and yet compared to a number of the brand-new motions in psychotherapy with cognitive behavioral therapy they’re far more involved in the nature a minimum of the method it’s done in this clothing it’s they’re much more interested and nurturing of the here and now and with client relationship so that’s.
that’s been a change of heart for me completely moved I was also amazed to see how much intimacy you can get back at by composing often even a few of the clients are more able to expose themselves that is a bit confidential that that’s been really important finding for me too I’ve been dealing with Nicole Eames and supervising rather frequently now in the last couple of years and that’s that is among the important things that I really found in my deal with her as she talked about her patient they reveal things what has amazed me is numerous times I have actually heard her state the patients have said that they reveal things to her they never ever revealed to their to their in person therapist and that’s rather remarkable among the important things is obviously the anonymity that that we don’t quite find but here they deal with face to face therapist for a year or 2 and never exposed particular of these things that were that were extremely shameful there’s another thing too which is that a patient can have an anxiety attack in the middle of the night and right away text the therapist. Betterhelp Hobs