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yes well it’s a big question to begin with sure well let me simply just reassociate about that a bit I have actually been doing therapy for a long time of all the numerous schools of treatment I would say did one end of the continuum of those who believe that the nature of the relationship the intimacy of the relationship the the work on the procedure implying what’s taking place in between is there isn’t a is the most essential concern so I focus quite on taking a look at what’s going on between the clients and me trying to offer very intimate so I would be the person who would probably be least thinking about a context treatment format and and I have actually been for many years I suggest one so my colleagues do telephone terapy for instance I understand an analyst who transferred to California would capital for New York analysis and would do her analysis of the phone I felt very critical that you’re missing all these visual hints how can you do that however everything altered for me a couple of years ago when I got a call an e-mail from from a patient who I can’t even
mention the the location where she was however she was on another continent where it was absolutely cold in the northern hemisphere and there wasn’t another therapist or MD within five or six hundred miles of her and asking whether I would just do some Skype deal with her given that there was no other alternative I I agreed to do that she could not see anyone else and she required therapy so I began dealing with her and I wound up having an excellent experience with her in fact she had moved to that place to avoid everyone and there is no way that she would have wanted to meet with me in a space in person there was no other alternative in a sense therefore it ended up it was surprisingly well I was extremely pleased with that and ever since I have actually had a genuine had a real modification of focus on that and among the things that has been most fascinating to me about talks face is the fact that of a it’s just it’s counterintuitive I would have believed the major problem with talk space is that they would not be concentrating on the here and now what was happening in between therapist and patient and yet compared with a number of the brand-new motions in psychotherapy with cognitive behavioral therapy they’re much more involved in the nature at least the way it’s carried out in this clothing it’s they’re far more interested and nurturing of the here and now and with patient relationship so that’s.
that’s been a change of mind for me entirely migrated I was also surprised to see how much intimacy you can get back at by writing sometimes even a few of the clients are more able to expose themselves that is a little bit anonymous that that’s been really crucial finding for me too I have actually been working with Nicole Eames and monitoring rather regularly now in the last number of years and that’s that’s one of the things that I really discovered in my deal with her as she discussed her client they reveal things what has shocked me is a number of times I have actually heard her say the patients have said that they expose things to her they never revealed to their to their in person therapist and that’s quite remarkable among the things is of course the privacy that that we don’t quite find however here they work with face to face therapist for a year or more and never ever revealed specific of these things that were that were really disgraceful there’s another thing too which is that a patient can have a panic attack in the middle of the night and instantly text the therapist. Betterhelp Customer Support