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yes well it’s a big question to begin with sure well let me just simply reassociate about that a bit I have actually been doing therapy for a long time of all the numerous schools of therapy I would say did one end of the continuum of those who believe that the nature of the relationship the intimacy of the relationship the the deal with the procedure indicating what’s occurring in between exists isn’t a is the most crucial concern so I focus quite on looking at what’s going on in between the patients and me trying to provide very intimate so I would be the individual who would probably be least thinking about a context treatment format and and I have been for several years I mean one so my colleagues do telephone terapy for instance I understand an expert who moved to California would capital for New york city analysis and would do her analysis of the phone I felt really important that you’re missing out on all these visual hints how can you do that however everything altered for me a couple of years ago when I got a call an email from from a patient who I can’t even
point out the the location where she was however she was on another continent where it was absolutely ice-cold in the northern hemisphere and there wasn’t another therapist or MD within 5 or six hundred miles of her and asking whether I would simply do some Skype work with her since there was no other alternative I I agreed to do that she couldn’t see anybody else and she required therapy so I started working with her and I ended up having a very good experience with her in fact she had relocated to that place to avoid everyone and there is no way that she would have wanted to consult with me in a space face-to-face there was no other option in a sense therefore it wound up it was surprisingly well I was very amazed with that and since then I have actually had a genuine had a genuine modification of focus on that and one of the important things that has actually been most interesting to me about talks deal with is the truth that of a it’s simply it’s counterintuitive I would have believed the significant problem with talk area is that they would not be concentrating on the here and now what was happening in between therapist and patient and yet compared with much of the new motions in psychiatric therapy with cognitive behavior modification they’re even more involved in the nature a minimum of the method it’s carried out in this clothing it’s they’re far more interested and nurturing of the here and now and with client relationship so that’s.
that’s been a change of mind for me completely migrated I was likewise surprised to see just how much intimacy you can get even by writing sometimes even some of the patients are more able to expose themselves that is a little bit confidential that that’s been extremely essential finding for me too I have actually been working with Nicole Eames and monitoring rather routinely now in the last couple of years which’s that’s one of the things that I really discovered in my deal with her as she spoke about her patient they expose things what has surprised me is several times I’ve heard her state the patients have actually said that they expose things to her they never revealed to their to their in person therapist which’s rather exceptional one of the things is of course the anonymity that that we don’t rather find however here they work with face to face therapist for a year or two and never ever revealed specific of these things that were that were really shameful there’s another thing too which is that a client can have an anxiety attack in the middle of the night and instantly text the therapist. Betterhelp Beverly Vanover