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yes well it’s a huge concern to begin with sure well let me just simply reassociate about that a bit I have actually been doing treatment for a very long time of all the different schools of therapy I would state did one end of the continuum of those who believe that the nature of the relationship the intimacy of the relationship the the deal with the process implying what’s taking place in between exists isn’t a is the most crucial issue so I focus quite on looking at what’s going on between the patients and me trying to offer very intimate so I would be the individual who would probably be least interested in a context treatment format and and I have actually been for many years I mean one so my colleagues do telephone terapy for example I understand an analyst who moved to California would capital for New York analysis and would do her analysis of the phone I felt very critical that you’re missing all these visual hints how can you do that however everything changed for me a few years ago when I got a call an email from from a patient who I can’t even
discuss the the location where she was but she was on another continent where it was absolutely ice-cold in the northern hemisphere and there wasn’t another therapist or MD within five or 6 hundred miles of her and asking whether I would just do some Skype deal with her given that there was no other option I I agreed to do that she couldn’t see anybody else and she needed treatment so I began working with her and I ended up having a very good experience with her in fact she had transferred to that location to get away from everyone and there is no chance that she would have wanted to consult with me in a space face-to-face there was no other alternative in a sense therefore it wound up it was surprisingly well I was very satisfied with that and since then I’ve had a genuine had a genuine change of focus on that and among the important things that has been most interesting to me about talks face is the reality that of a it’s simply it’s counterproductive I would have thought the significant issue with talk area is that they would not be focusing on the here and now what was taking place between therapist and client and yet compared to much of the brand-new motions in psychiatric therapy with cognitive behavioral therapy they’re much more associated with the nature a minimum of the way it’s done in this outfit it’s they’re far more interested and nurturing of the here and now and with patient relationship so that’s.
that’s been a change of heart for me entirely moved I was likewise amazed to see just how much intimacy you can get even by writing often even a few of the clients are more able to expose themselves that is a bit anonymous that that’s been really important finding for me too I’ve been working with Nicole Eames and supervising rather frequently now in the last couple of years and that’s that is among the important things that I really discovered in my work with her as she discussed her client they reveal things what has surprised me is a number of times I’ve heard her state the clients have actually said that they expose things to her they never exposed to their to their face-to-face therapist and that’s quite remarkable among the important things is obviously the privacy that that we do not quite find however here they work with face to face therapist for a year or two and never revealed certain of these things that were that were really shameful there’s another thing too which is that a client can have a panic attack in the middle of the night and instantly text the therapist. Betterhelp Affiliates