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yes well it’s a big question to begin with sure well let me just just reassociate about that a little bit I have actually been doing therapy for a long time of all the numerous schools of treatment I would say did one end of the continuum of those who believe that the nature of the relationship the intimacy of the relationship the the work on the procedure suggesting what’s occurring between exists isn’t a is the most important concern so I focus very much on taking a look at what’s going on in between the patients and me trying to offer very intimate so I would be the person who would most likely be least thinking about a context therapy format and and I have been for many years I indicate one so my associates do telephone terapy for instance I understand an expert who relocated to California would capital for New york city analysis and would do her analysis of the phone I felt extremely critical that you’re missing all these visual cues how can you do that but whatever altered for me a couple of years ago when I got a call an e-mail from from a patient who I can’t even
discuss the the place where she was but she was on another continent where it was definitely ice-cold in the northern hemisphere and there wasn’t another therapist or MD within 5 or six hundred miles of her and asking whether I would just do some Skype work with her given that there was no other alternative I I agreed to do that she couldn’t see anybody else and she needed treatment so I started working with her and I ended up having a very good experience with her in fact she had actually transferred to that place to escape everybody and there is no other way that she would have wanted to meet me in a space face-to-face there was no other option in a sense and so it ended up it was surprisingly well I was really amazed with that and since then I have actually had a real had a real change of concentrate on that and among the important things that has actually been most intriguing to me about talks deal with is the fact that of a it’s just it’s counterintuitive I would have thought the significant issue with talk space is that they would not be concentrating on the here and now what was taking place between therapist and patient and yet compared with a number of the new movements in psychiatric therapy with cognitive behavior modification they’re much more involved in the nature at least the way it’s carried out in this attire it’s they’re much more interested and nurturing of the here and now and with patient relationship so that’s.
that’s been a change of mind for me completely moved I was also shocked to see how much intimacy you can get back at by composing often even some of the clients are more able to expose themselves that is a bit anonymous that that’s been extremely essential finding for me too I’ve been working with Nicole Eames and supervising quite regularly now in the last number of years and that’s that is among the things that I really discovered in my deal with her as she discussed her client they expose things what has astounded me is several times I have actually heard her state the clients have said that they expose things to her they never ever exposed to their to their face-to-face therapist which’s rather exceptional one of the important things is obviously the anonymity that that we don’t quite find but here they deal with face to face therapist for a year or 2 and never ever exposed specific of these things that were that were really shameful there’s another thing too which is that a client can have a panic attack in the middle of the night and immediately text the therapist. Alon Betterhelp